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Showing posts with label compassion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label compassion. Show all posts

Thursday, September 8, 2022

Socks and Sympathy


Now there were some present at that time who told Jesus about the Galileans whose blood Pilate had mixed with their sacrifices. Jesus answered, “Do you think that these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans because they suffered this way? I tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will all perish. Or those eighteen who died when the tower in Siloam fell on them—do you think they were more guilty than all the others living in Jerusalem?
I tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will all perish.” - Luke 13:1-5

This past weekend Missy’s family gathered all together at Fort Boonesborough State Park in Winchester, Kentucky. This is something they have done for years during the Labor Day weekend - and boy, is camping “labor!”

I (Steve) drove back to North Carolina on Saturday for worship on Sunday. Sunday, I turned right around and drove back to a wet and muddy Kentucky.

Along the way I drove through far Eastern Kentucky and parts of the Appalachian Mountains. The drive took me through Wolfe, Lee, Breathitt, Perry and Letcher counties. These were a few of the counties utterly devastated by recent flooding.

One of the horrific images which shall be forever lodged in my mind as I was driving by Lost Creek on Ky 15 - just a few miles outside of Jackson - was the sight of bedding and clothing…15-25 ft in the air clinging to the branches of trees.

The creek, which has subsided, was gently rolling along next to the road - all while sheets, blankets, shirts and even socks were hanging from the branches directly above.

Homes, which had been removed from their foundations, were wrapped around trees, some even upside down; cars were littered across the creek. Still mourning and homeless families were standing silently or picking through rubbish trying to salvage anything from a life which no longer exists for them.

It left you feeling helpless. It made you ask, “God, where were you when this happened?”

In our scripture today we see where Jesus brings up two horrific and unfortunate events. Some had apparently been blaming the victims for what happened to them. Sound familiar?

Yet, the truth is this: things just sometimes happen. Life happens.

There is no explaining it. There is no comfort. There is only brokenness.

It is at this point that a lot of Christians - including those who serve as ministers or are in leadership positions - give only pat answers like, “I am praying for you.” Or, even worse - in the case of those impacted by the floods - “Well, they shouldn’t live by a creek…”

At best, we know that people say these things only because they don’t know what else to say. They are at a loss for words. At worst, they actually think that way and consider themselves better people than others.

Jesus, who we are called to follow, gives us a couple of questions to consider before we begin pronouncing judgment on people who are or have experienced a horrible life moment:“Do you think that these…were worse sinners? Do you think they were more guilty than all the others?”

Of course, in our feeble and self-preserving ways, we are constantly comparing ourselves with others - you know, trying to place ourselves in a better light. What better way to do that than to think others are “worse” than us.

Perhaps no one truly understood this better than Saul/Paul of Tarsus. I Timothy 1:15 has him openly declaring, “I am the chief of sinners.” The NET version pounds it home: “I am the worst of them!”

If each of us viewed ourselves from this lens there would be no need to judge another. No need to blame someone else. No necessity laid upon us to compare ourselves with anyone.

Perhaps the next time we witness something terrible befall someone the first response we should have is one of empathy. Of understanding. Of a broken heart that immediately goes to God in prayer for that person and that situation.

British statesman and financier Cecil Rhodes, whose fortune was used to endow the world-famous Rhodes Scholarships, was a stickler for correct dress--but apparently not at the expense of someone else's feelings.

A young man invited to dine with Rhodes arrived by train and had to go directly to Rhodes's home in his travel-stained clothes. Once there he was appalled to find the other guests already assembled, wearing full evening dress.

After what seemed a long time Rhodes appeared, in a shabby old blue suit. Later the young man learned that his host had been dressed in evening clothes, but put on the old suit when he heard of his young guest's dilemma.

What about you? Is there anyone you know who needs your empathy? Your sympathy? Your understanding? Your compassion?

After all, isn’t that what Jesus gave us when “While we were still sinning Christ died for us”?

Tuesday, March 22, 2022

Jesus is On Your Side

 


03-22-2022

I will praise the LORD at all times. I will constantly speak his praises. I will boast only in the LORD; let all who are helpless take heart. Come, let us tell of the LORD’s greatness; let us exalt his name together. The LORD hears his people when they call to him for help. He rescues them from all their troubles. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed. The righteous person faces many troubles, but the LORD comes to the rescue each time. ...the LORD will redeem those who serve him. No one who takes refuge in him will be condemned…The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and rescues those whose spirit is crushed.
 Psalm 34:1-3;17-19; 22 (New Living Translation)

You may, or may not, have noticed that we did not do a newsletter this past week. There have been three funerals this past couple of weeks and it has taken a mental toll on all of us.

Funerals tend to bring out a lot of emotions, for obvious reasons. But we want to share with you the reason Christians can go through loss and grief and still maintain their joy in the Lord.

We first want to say that grief is real. Loss hurts. And, yes, there are moments in life when you feel like you will never draw in your next breath. Life can be crushing and cruel. Yet we are often told just to suck it up and pull ourselves up by our bootstraps. Ironically, the Bible NEVER EVER teaches this flawed and fatal humanistic thinking. Indeed, Jesus said, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”

We wish we could explain how that happens. No book, no website, no speaker can do that. And, yes, there will be times in your life when comfort seems like either an abstract idea or illusion.

Yet, we believe we will be comforted. And that is why followers of Jesus are different. In spite of the “reality” around us - we believe and trust in a greater “Reality” to guide us.

Why do we believe? What causes us to throw our lot in with an Invisible Force? The world offers nothing but temporary assistance when we are hurting - not that there's anything wrong with that, by the way. The body of Christ, though, has something “in addition” and permanent to that.

Ann Voskamp, in her book The Broken Way, states, “When the church isn’t for the suffering and broken, then the church isn’t for Christ. Because Jesus, with His pierced side, is always on the side of the broken.”

Jesus is on the side of the broken and crushed. Jesus is on your side. He is on our side.

Look at Mary and Martha and how he went to them during the loss of their beloved brother Lazarus - “Jesus wept.” Remember when Jesus “... saw a great multitude and was moved with compassion for them, because they were like sheep not having a shepherd,” (Mark 6:34). In Luke, two blind men cry out to Jesus and: “Moved with compassion, Jesus touched their eyes, and at once they received their sight and followed Him,” (Matthew 20:34).

Jesus is compassion personified. He is God’s compassion made flesh. 
 We believe in him. Therefore, his compassion is ours.

Even today, Jesus seeks out the suffering and that is where he will be found. As Ann Voskamp reminded us, the wound in His side proves that Jesus is always on the side of the suffering. Today, let us assure you that Jesus is on your side.

We do not know all of what you are going through. We cannot imagine the pain your heart may be bearing. Yet, there is something to be said about embracing the pain, the loss and the grief.

It is a sad truth that so often we try to run away from difficult situations. We try to smooth over the rough moments of our lives. We do all we can to numb ourselves, so pain and hurt do not overwhelm us.

Sadly, a lot of Christians do not want you to know that suffering, loss, disappointment and hurt are an integral part of all our lives. We speak of the joy of Jesus so much that we neglect - to our own demise - the comfort of the only One Who truly understands what we are going through.

Never forget, “Jesus wept.”

And Jesus is weeping with us on this day. He is weeping over your loss. He is weeping over your sin. He is weeping over the destruction of nations. He is weeping over the addiction plaguing you and your family. He is weeping over the fact you are not getting enough rest. He is weeping over the fact you cannot get the health care you need. He is weeping over the gossip among his children. He is weeping. Why? Because he cares…and wants to comfort you and me.

Euegene Peterson, writing in the foreword of Alan Nelson’s book, Embracing Brokenness: How God Refines Us Through Life’s Disappointments, confirms a powerful truth: 
 “Suffering is not evidence of God’s absence, but of God’s presence, and it is in our experience of being broken that God does his surest and most characteristic salvation work. There is a way to accept, embrace, and deal with suffering that results in a better life, not a worse one, and more of the experience of God, not less. God is working out his salvation in our lives the way he has always worked it out—at the place of brokenness, at the cross of Jesus, and at the very place where we take up our cross.”

It was at the cross of Jesus that the love of all loves - the hope of all hopes - was given without remorse or regret. To a planet filled with sin, pain and suffering, the God of all creation sent His one and only Son to show He alone can empathize and carry us through. As David sings in Psalm 34: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and rescues those whose spirit is crushed,” (Psalm 34:18).

It is our prayer and hope that Jesus would comfort, console and encompass you this day. May God grant you strength to endure, grace to overcome, and peace to continue living.

Steve and Missy


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